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November 2014 Newsletter

Posted by on November 4, 2014

Dear Friends

We had just come ashore after spending a few hours on board Taleisin with two potential voyagers. The cold, early spring wind made the hot chicken and bean soup particularly welcome.  “We are both tired of the rat race, tired of working just to consume, definitely don’t need a 2600 square foot house,” stated our guest. “If we sell the house and my business,” he continued, “then find the right boat and buy it for X and can figure out how to live on X per month, that’s it, retired.”  His numbers made sense, his expectations appeared realistic. I looked toward his wife to see how she was reacting. From the glow on her face I sensed she was on the same track. Our conversation went off on a multitude of tangents as I savored the enthusiasm and sensed the potential joys awaiting a couple who were not even half our ages, and just wetting their toes in the grand adventure of voyaging under sail. It wasn’t until three nights later that I recalled his declaration about retiring and then living frugally to eke out the income from a nest egg. I spent a good part of the night pondering what, given more time to think, I should have answered.

Spring is definitely here, and with it a special day – the opening of the brand new Kawau Boating Club here on our island.

Spring is definitely here, and with it a special day – the opening of the brand new Kawau Boating Club here on our island.

The next day I contacted our visitor. “You asked if you could live and cruise long term on X a month. Larry and I agreed you could but, though being free of jobs will feel wonderful for a while, I doubt that after a few years, you’d find it fully satisfying. I bet you come across some career you never imagined just because you ran away to sea!” As I look back at our sailing life, and that of many of the other addicted voyagers we have met along the way, I know this has been the case.  Many, like us, dreamed and schemed just to get a few months off to sail away, then came across sometimes boring, sometimes really interesting but always changeable ways to extend our cruising kitty. Others had sold large homes, inherited money or had their companies bought out for sums that made earning money relatively unimportant.  The majority of these deep pocket voyagers also found themselves enjoying periods of gainful employment working at jobs or projects they’d never envisioned before they set sail.  That’s the magic of stepping off the normal paths of life – you not only encounter unexpected opportunities, you have time to think and trial ideas that often lead to new careers.

I remember three young English sailors, a former London bus driver, an apprentice box builder and a bricky (brick layer). Broke but happy in Gibralter, they made a really low ball quote to lay tiles in 40 new apartments, got the job, worked 7 days a week, 12 hours a day and a sailed off with new skills and enough money for another 9 months of exploring under sail. Later one became a very successful super-yacht skipper, the second returned to the UK after two years afloat to become a successful builder, the third became a sailing instructor in Italy. Then there were two school teachers, definitely budget minded cruisers, who happened to stop at a small resort in Costa Rica for drinks. Two months later they were managing the resort while the owners took a long needed break. Resort management became their way of voyaging – sailing onward until they found another resort owner needing a break. Several of our cruising friends, frustrated that they couldn’t get the gear they wanted for their boat, came up with new ideas which lead to sometimes small, sometimes quite large new businesses. One created a fine line of marine hardware, another designed then began manufacturing a more affordable windvane. Some of our voyaging friends, who said they were never going to work again, found their cruising took them to places where they found themselves needed. They set to work trying to help local folks and, like Tom and Harriet Linkskey (www.handsacrossthesea.net) who began collecting books and school supplies for some of the poorer villages in the Caribbean, then ferrying these supplies on board their 42 foot Cat, ended up creating very helpful and fulfilling new careers.

The Mahurangi Cruising Club held a grand regatta on a fine day. Next day it was windy, wet, but that’s spring in New Zealand

The Mahurangi Cruising Club held a grand regatta on a fine day. Next day it was windy, wet, but that’s spring in New Zealand

As I look back at the 45 years Larry and I actively voyaged and explored under sail, it is often the times we spent working that come first to mind, the people we met because we stopped for a while to be part of the local scene, the varied  jobs (sometimes even crazy) that we were offered or even invented,  the unexpected careers that opened to us. Before I met Larry I was planning to earn my living with numbers or music – I love numbers, top marks in math, almost failed in English classes, especially if composition was part of it. Musically I now realize I wasn’t very talented, but tell that to an 18 year old. Never did anything more physical than washing my car on a Saturday morning. Yet I ended up earning money by doing finish work on boats, being a carpenters apprentice, by assisting on deliveries, cooking on a shrimp trawler, coordinating a wooden boat festival, managing a shipyard, becoming a writer, then seminar presenter, an author. I am not sure if, the folks who are willing to take the plunge, quit normal life and go cruising are better at imagining new careers, or if voyaging makes you more flexible and willing to try new ideas. But I never could have imagined that, when Larry’s diminishing health meant crossing oceans had to be laid aside, I’d end up becoming a nautical book publisher. With the 35th anniversary edition of Herb Payson’s Blown Away almost ready to be shipped for Holiday gift giving, the manuscript for a big book on Voyaging with Kids coming along from Michael Robertson, Behan Gifford and Sara Johnson – three people who are out cruising as families, I am using all the skills I learned from voyaging, keeping touch with the world of cruising and doing lots of playing with numbers too.

We’re lucky to have a resident pod of dolphin in the next bay. Great greeting when we head over to visit friends who live there.

We’re lucky to have a resident pod of dolphin in the next bay. Great greeting when we head over to visit friends who live there.

And that is what I tried to share with our visitor. Setting off to cruise the world could be just the beginning, an adventure in itself and a building block that leads to a new, more fulfilling career, or maybe even an ever changing array of careers.

Fair winds and following seas,

Lin and Larry Pardey

P.S. What are ten things to avoid when you go cruising, was just one of the questions Dan Mattson asked when he recorded a podcast with Larry and I at the Port Townsend Wooden Boat festival. Click here to hear the answers 

5 Responses to November 2014 Newsletter

  1. mocaito

    Hi,
    We met last winter (Canada) at the Toronto Boat Show, of course your summer. Love your club picture and the energetic dolphins. We saw many sailing the Straight of Belle Isle this past summer on our way to Labrador. Will you be at the Toronto show this year ?
    Mike
    http://gonesailing.finnevans.ca

    • Robert

      Hi Mike, sorry to say we will not be coming to Toronto this year. but that doesn’t mean we will be missing the blast of winter right in the middle of a New Zealand summer. instead we will be headed to a very wintery Russia. Yes, been invited as guests of the Moscow Boat Show. Couldn’t pass up the chance to visit one of the places we never were able to see during our voyages.

      Thanks
      Lin

  2. salam andalust

    Lynn,
    I just saw that you have had to give up cruising, how awful!

    a’salam andalust
    leisure 17
    Bay Area

  3. ip3131

    I just finished reading “As Long as it’s Fun.” Great book; great lives. I enjoyed the reference to Willem C. Schouten who rounded Cape Horn in 1616. We raised our son Will with the perhaps incorrect understanding that he is a direct descendent from the Dutch explorer and our boat is named Eendracht. Nice to see the mention. The best to the both of you!

  4. seattlekiwi

    Lin & Larry,

    I just finished “As long as it’s fun” and thoroughly enjoyed it. Thank you for sharing your stories. I think you inspire a lot of cruisers. I’m not sure if this is the best way to send a message. I was particularly pleased to see you happily settled in NZ!

    Richard.

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